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Saturday, September 5, 2009

...about kindness


thoughtfulness and kindness go a long way for me. i strive to be a thoughtful and kind person. on my best days i offer people a ride somewhere when they need it, bring in random treats to staff meetings just because it might make the meeting a little more enjoyable or offer to help with errands or childcare if i know someone is struggling to keep it together. on my not so great days, i get absorbed with myself and fret about all that i don't have time to do.

lately, i have been pretty absorbed. i am not putting myself down. i am in a transition period at the moment. my littlest boy is beginning school. i am going back to work. i have to figure out a way to do almost all of the jobs i was doing when i stayed at home as well as all the jobs that go along with teaching 11 year olds each day. i have a bit of stress that i am working through. i know this so i'm not going to be too hard on myself for being self-absorbed. i'm giving myself a break. having said that, i got a much needed reminder about "the circle of kindness" yesterday.

i was rushing downtown to hamilton to pick up photos, school shoes for the boys and some classroom items. i pulled into the parking lot and was rummaging around in the car to find some change for the meter when a woman came to my window, smiled at me and passed me her ticket that had more than 30 minutes still left on it. i told her how lovely she was to which she replied, "oh, people have done it for me, so i thought i would pass it along." her gesture was a small one but it coloured my day. in a stressful week, it is the little things that count. i hope i have helped out people when they need it. i hope some of the gestures that i have made have made a small difference. i believe that kindness does come back to you. it did for me just at the right time.

3 comments:

Jim Christopher said...

Funny that you should say this. I have been watching you extend little kindnesses all week - to Irina, to Charlie, to Julia, to everyone who crosses your path.
I am glad that you were the "victim" of a random act of kindness. I don't know anyone who deserves it more!

Lady Mama said...

You know what, I think small gestures of kindness go a long way. Receiving something as small as a parking ticket can make the difference between an okay day and a good one - for me anyway!

Connie Weiss said...

I believe that kindness comes back to you! I hope your life becomes less stressful and you get some time for yourself.

So excited that you are joining Bloggers On The Run!